Love under the rule of the web
The web in the title is the world wide web, and the existence of the www has not only changed how people live and how people act but most importantly, the culture of living beings are all changed.
One of the easiest example would be love/relationships and the likes of it. Look at the generations before the www, love started with face to face conversations and mutual understanding were done in depth before even starting a relationship. However, as the internet emerged into the current millennium things have changed drastically.
Due to the existence of the internet, love has become a toy, people falling over each other with millions of miles between them, age does not seems to be a matter anymore, deeper understandings were no longer needed to start a relationship and etc. But then, the best part is that people can rely on someone on the net for a moment without having to fear of what their society would think of them. For example, if you were to have a grudge towards your family or your boss, it will be hard to share it among friends but it is easier if you have an online lover to share it with.
Therefore, love on the web makes sense this way when people wants to be discreet but yet they need a place or someone to voice out what they think and basically a new identity.
The friggin weather
I am not sure sure what is wrong with the weather but it is raining for like 15mins after a long day filled with intense love and care from the sun. Imagine the the heat rising from the ground after the small pour? It is totally unbearable.
Speaking of the rain, it came across my mind that people are like rain too. What are the characteristics linking people to rain? it is the unpredictability I guess, despite weather forecasts and the likes of it, the weather has always been out of the expectation of people. Just like people, you will never know what is going on their mind and predicting their next move is always hard.
And it is odd when people says the weather is complicated when the say it never rains or it never stop raining but they never take a look at themselves and think, are they like that too?
Take me for example, I am always like that, hard for people to predict what am I going to say or do. Even myself find it hard to predict what I am going to do or say later.
I am very random.
A waiting wish
I usually wish
That you could hold my hand not tight but firm so that I can never leave you
I usually wish
That I will always be in your mind maybe not always but most of the time so that I will the first person you think of
I really wish
That i know how u look like to be closer to u as you always seems to be a mystery to me
Make my wishes come true one day?
无题149
生命中的一切
因你而起，因你而终
闭上失明的眼
不看你笑，不看你哭
静静宁听四周
你的呐喊，我的悲哀
那个无知的人
似乎是你，似乎是我
无知的你或我
随风而去，随潮而退
What is love?
I am not so sure about the rest of the world but I find it hard to define Love as in what the word represents. Everything around us as in movies, novels, and even real life scenarios portray love as something which is hard to get, most people would end up being heart broken. And the outcome of love is usually marriage if the love process is successful, and in most marriage, the reason of it lasting so long is the responsibility which is usually the children. just look at the divorce cases lately, I bet that lawyers who handle such cases are driving Mercedes and BMWs.
Reason of me posting this is that sometimes I find myself being cold blooded or emotionless towards such feelings most of the time except for a few very special cases. Despite having felt that I fell in love, I felt that something is lacking some where and I do not know what is that actually. Seeing how lovey dovey my friends could be, it made me wonder that if love that powerful? but some other friends are actually not having those lovey dovey thingy but rather logical relationship, so is that called love? Besides that, some were actually having disasturous relationship but still they do not regret being in them. It amazes me of the amount of definition that love has.
When people step into life, there are some process and one of them is called love but some sorta treated it like a game or so. A friend broke off recently and suddenly got with another individual in like a blink of eye, I do not know if that is what they called love. I mean that if it was meant for a good soul sharing moment, wouldn’t you want it to last? Another friend who broke off recently, lamented that his girl does not like his hobby, but his hobby is actually very healthy and she does not seems to like it. If love is that powerful, then people in love should accept each other for who they are isn’t it?
I think I am a person who is in need of a lot of freedom regardless of whether in a relationship or not, I need a lot of space for myself and I like to do things in my own discreet which I think is not very healthy in a relationship. I am not sure if I am too rational or something, I just cant seems to find that moment or feeling that will lift me up in the sky and put me on cloud nine. Things have been rather complicated with people around me regardless of in the campus or off the campus. I have different groups of friends who have different kind of culture, being part of them makes me confused of what I want to do and what do I have in mind.
This came up out of no where after a session where I saw a friend suffered so much about his relationship but I do not know of any way to make him happy not that I do not care but I believe that the reason of him asking us out is to let us know that he will be fine and he needs our support at that moment. not being cold blooded or what but i felt that he could do well on his own all we can do is to support his every decision. At times I felt helpless on issues alike but I usually kept it for myself except for once where I actually asked TEH BITCH on what should I do just because I really liked that person very much, I do not know how much do I like her but I am pretty sure that I like her.
Complication is the trend now I guess, the more complicated it is, the better it is.
I guess I will be writing about reincarnation next, don’t ask me why, I don’t know what got into me lately.
Cheers
